From crack baby to A-student
MARIAN WRIGHT EDELMAN | 5/11/2015, 11:10 a.m.
(NNPA) – The odds were stacked against Britiny Lee before she was born. Her mother was addicted to drugs, like Britiny’s grandfather and many others in their poverty-stricken Cleveland neighborhood. Britiny’s mother used drugs throughout her pregnancy and went to prison for a year just after her birth. As a poor, Black crack baby with an addicted, incarcerated mother and an absent father, she started life in danger.
Being born into an unstable poor family or to a single, teen, incarcerated or absent parent are all known risk factors in America’s cradle-to-prison pipeline crisis. The disadvantages millions of poor children and children of color face from birth through adulthood can include no or inadequate prenatal and health care; no or little quality early childhood education and enrichment; child abuse and neglect; failing schools; grade retention, suspension and expulsion; questionable special education placements; dropping out of school; unaddressed mental health problems; violent drug-infested neighborhoods; and disproportionate involvement in the child welfare and juvenile justice systems.
Entering the child welfare system would have been still another risk factor for baby Britiny but she was lucky.
Her grandmother, who already had custody of Britiny’s older brother and sister, stepped in.
Britiny says, “My grandmother stepped up to the plate to raise us because she didn’t want us to go into the foster care system.” Britiny’s grandmother didn’t have a lot of money, but she was a stable source of love and support throughout childhood and Britiny flourished in her care.
Despite doctors’ concerns when she was born as a drug-addicted child, Britiny was resilient and became a straight-A student who loved school from the beginning. Her grandmother was her rock even while struggling with the autoimmune disease lupus, which got worse as Britiny got older. When she was 8 years old, her grandmother suffered a seizure when they were home alone and Britiny had to call 911 and ride in the ambulance with her grandmother to the hospital.
From then on she was terrified of losing her grandmother. Britiny’s mother Felicia, who was in and out of her life throughout her childhood, was struggling towards sobriety. Nine months after Felicia became sober, when Britiny was 10 years old, her grandmother died.
Felicia remembers the moving moment: “[My mother] held my hand and she told me, ‘Licia, I want to go home.’ And I thought that she meant go home, like put her in the car and take her home. No. She was saying she was tired and she was ready to go home to Glory … She looked at me in my eyes, and she said, ‘And God told me that you were ready, that you were ready to be a mom, that you’re going to be a good mom, that you’re not going to use drugs anymore, and that I could go.’”
Britiny’s mother was finally ready to step in, regain custody, and learn how to be the parent her daughter needed and deserved. Today, Britiny is a high school senior about to graduate from Cleveland’s John Hay School of Science and Medicine, and dreams of becoming a cardiac surgeon. She recently received a Beat the Odds scholarship from Children’s Defense Fund-Ohio.