Black & Blue: Widows of police shootings, violence against police have MLK talk

JAMIE STENGLE | 2/1/2018, 4:07 p.m.
Loved ones of a Black man fatally shot by police in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, and two law enforcement officers – ...
Course Correction Conversation, presented by the Urban Specialist at Gilley's Southside Music Hall, featured a diverse panel discussion on healing after violence and death, on Martin Luther King Jr. Day. The Urban Specialist

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Loved ones of a Black man fatally shot by police in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, and two law enforcement officers – one Black and one White – ambushed and killed in that city 12 days later came together for a Martin Luther King Jr. Day discussion during the Course Correction Conversation presented by the Urban Specialists at Gilley's Southside Music Hall.

Bishop Omar Jahwar, CEO of the Dallas-based nonprofit Urban Specialists that stresses bridging the gap between the community and police among other things, called the Jan. 15 event “a healing conversation.”

“At some point the human agenda has to supersede your personal agenda,” said Jahwar, a pastor who guided the discussion in Dallas, which was billed as a dialogue about the violence as well as racial issues in America.

The participants included Trenisha Jackson, whose husband Montrell Jackson, a Baton Rouge officer, was among those killed in the 2016 ambush; Tonja Garafola, the widow of East Baton Rouge Parish Sheriff’s Deputy Brad Garafola; and Andricka Williams, the mother of three children of Alton Sterling, the man killed by officers in Baton Rouge.

“I just feel like love is the key. If we just go about this loving one another and not judging one another, I feel as if things will be better,” Trenisha Jackson said before the event. Her husband described the difficulties of being both a Black man and a police officer in a Facebook post days before his death.

“The foundation starts at home. ... If you can’t live by example then you’re not leading by example,” Tonja Garafola said during the discussion, which drew about 1,000 people. “We have to pull through and we have to pull together. We have to.”

U.S. lawmakers along with Houston rap artist Scarface, NFL Hall of Famer Deion Sanders and other celebrities also attended the event.

“I have come to a conclusion that the only way you get to know anyone and to know their thoughts is to communicate with them. You cannot assume anything,” U.S. Rep. Eddie Bernice Johnson said from the stage in a discussion that served as an opener to the main event. “If everybody in this room were all the same color, you’d probably get that many different opinions. And so you can’t just assume that everyone is alike. You can’t assume everyone has had the same experiences.”

King’s daughter, the Rev. Bernice King, addressed the crowd via video.

“We’ve got to find a way to learn how to live together or we’re going to destroy ourselves. That’s just the bottom line,” King said. “And for the sake of the next generation, we cannot afford to do that. ... We’ve got to find and learn how to listen to each other.”

John Carlos also took part in the discussion before the main event. Carlos and Tommie Smith staged one of the most iconic protests in sports history, when they raised their fists during the medals ceremony at the 1968 Olympics.

“I’ll never take my fist down. Why? Because the injustices have not stopped,” Carlos said when it was his turn to speak.