Transitioning back to work after baby
Family Features | 4/1/2019, 12:13 p.m.
Just when you were getting the hang of having a baby at home, it’s time to go back to work. Beyond the expected changes such as picking work tasks back up and catching up on things you’ve missed, your priorities have most likely shifted now that you’re a parent.
It’s normal for parents to feel anxious about transitioning back to work after having a baby, but they don’t have to do it alone. Most new parents have built-in support systems of friends and family, but if their child will be attending day care, that structure can provide additional help through the transition.
To help make the transition back to work as seamless as possible, consider these tips from infant teachers at KinderCare, which has been caring for children for almost 50 years.
1. Choose a day care near work.
A parent’s first instinct might be to choose a day care that’s close to home, but once you return to work you may appreciate having your baby nearby – whether to breastfeed or just get some mid-day snuggles.
“We have an open-door policy,” said Regina Campisi, a nine-year KinderCare infant teacher. “Come in during your lunch break, feed your baby, have lunch with us and get to know your child’s teachers. Be a part of the educational process. It’s important to bridge that gap between work and school.”
2. Feel comfortable with your child care provider.
Parents know their babies best. Most day care centers are willing to work with parents to answer questions and create a positive experience for both parents and children.
Campisi recommends visiting your day care of choice at least once before and once after your baby is born.
“Before you have your baby, you’re going to have all these questions,” Campisi said. “After you have your baby, you’re going to have different questions. You’re going to want to show your day care provider what your baby needs.”
Above all else, parents should feel completely at ease when their baby is at day care. If parents feel comfortable and safe and know that their baby is in the right hands, it can make going back to work easier.
3. Take care of yourself.
When parents are on leave, sleepless nights are one thing. However, once parents have to get up at a certain time for work again and get their baby ready for day care, they can find they’re operating on a whole new level of sleep deprivation.
“Going back to work is a very fast-paced time for working parents,” said infant teacher Megan Martina, who has worked with KinderCare for seven years. “That’s why it’s important to rest and take care of yourself. Make sure you’re eating and that you have someone to help you.”
“I always say, ‘Don’t pour from an empty cup,’” Campisi said. “If you have a day off, let me take care of your baby. Go to the grocery store; take a long shower; take a lunch break; get a new book; do something for you.”
Going back to work after having a baby is a huge step to take, but it’s not impossible. For more tips to make the transition easier, visit http://www.kindercare.com.